That just means you're a Weapon and not a Player. Unless someone vows with you, you're a discard. You don't get any rights until someone vows with you. If you want, I'll vow with you and give you rights. [In exchange for helping her later but she won't say that. No use in coercing people until she has leverage. Oh and you get reassuring smile from witch-girl over here. You can trust her!]